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by Milley Brewington
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As time goes by, do you ever think about the influence you have on those around you? Do you wonder if you are making a difference in the lives of those you love or if you are accomplishing anything of lasting significance?

We all ponder these questions at one time or another. As people created in God’s image, we have within us a need to know that our lives are important and that what we do is truly meaningful — genuinely impactful to those we meet. We want to know that we are accepted, loved, and valued. We also desire the assurance that what we do will inspire the generations that will come after us.

Unfortunately, many of us may mistakenly measure our worth by how much we own, who seeks our counsel, the power we wield, the honors we’ve earned, or the number of people who know our names. But God never intended for these earthly achievements to define us. Scripture teaches us that the Father takes a different view of what comprises a significant life. The apostle John assures us, “The word is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever” (John 2:17).

So let me ask you: Do you feel as if your life is meaningful and of value? Do you know for certain you are accepted and loved, and that you’re inspiring those around you? Or have you become discouraged, wondering if what you do really matters?

You can be certain you are leaving a lasting legacy when you obey God because the most powerful way you influence people is leading them closer to Jesus.

This always causes me to think of my Mother. Growing up as a young child her life was difficult because she had a Dad with an alcoholic problem. Her Mother tried the best she knew how to provide for and take care of her four children. Because of the control that alcohol had on her Dad my Mother married young so that she could have a better life. My parents were married for 57 years when my Dad went to his eternal home in 1996. My Mother has always been a great provider, a nurturer, a woman of great wisdom because of her personal experiences in life, a woman of great strength and faith in God. I hear her say very often that she wants to live her life so that others can see Jesus in her. My Mother has had such great influence on my life which is still bearing eternal fruit today. I will never forget her kneeling with me beside my bed, praying with me, calling out my name to God, and teaching me to search Scripture. Her loving, faithful example has stayed with me throughout my life.

Like my Mother, you can live a life of great significance. You can know that what you say and do will influence those around you. So how do you ensure that your words and actions are truly meaningful and genuinely impactful to those you meet?

First, you do so by modeling a steadfast desire to follow Jesus with a sincere faith in His will and ways. Your devotion to the Savior motivates those around you to seek Him. As they see you face difficult trials with His grace or step out with absolute confidence in His wisdom and provision, they will know that your relationship with Him is not in word only. They will see it is a real energizing part of your life. They will witness how He loves, comforts, and strengthens you through every circumstance and provides for every need, and they will want to know Him as well (2 Corinthians 4: 5-7).

Second, you impact those you meet by demonstrating reverence for God’s Word. You do not have to be a scholar to inspire a love for the Bible in others—my Mother certainly wasn’t. All you need is to show reverence for God’s Word above all other sources of information as you read, study, and explain it. The Holy Spirit will do the rest (Hebrews 4:12).

Third, you influence others by teaching them how to listen to and obey the Lord. When you spend time with the Father and study Scripture, you develop profound discernment in many areas because “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding” (Proverbs 9:10). As your knowledge deepens, God will give you opportunities to share with others how they can listen to the Father and obey His commands for themselves.

Fourth, you ensure your interactions with others are meaningful and impactful by expressing a sincere love, a servant spirit, a forgiving heart, and a generous hand in every situation. When you demonstrate the character of Christ to others, your influence will be profound. By keeping your heart open, available, and ready to help others, they will see a difference in your life and will hopefully devote themselves to Christ. As Paul said, “I have become all things to all men, so that I may by all means save some” ( 1 Corinthians 9:22).

So do you wonder if you are making a difference in the lives of those you love or if you are accomplishing anything of consequence? Are you influencing those around you, leaving a spiritual legacy that will last in eternity? Like my Mother, Sudie, you can. It doesn’t matter how much you own, who seeks your counsel, the power you wield, the honors you’ve earned, or the number of people who know your name. What matter is the love and obedience you have for God.

Therefore, follow Jesus in faith, show reverence for Scripture, demonstrate Christ’s character to everyone you meet, and obey the Father. Doing so helps you know for certain that you are impacting eternity because when you do, you will realize how valuable and significant your life truly is.

When it comes to ministering to others for the sake of the gospel, you can never out give God. The Father always blesses the love, service, and prayers you selflessly invest in those around you.

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Ribbon cut at Lush Art
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Ribbon cut at Lush Art The Clinton-Sampson Chamber of Commerce welcomed a new business and Chamber member, Lush Art of Clinton, with a ribbon cutting celebration Thursday, June 13. Lush Art of Clinton is owned and operated by co-owners Jodie Nelson and Cara Heard. Lush Art of Clinton brings paint, pre-sketched canvas, and supplies to your party.You add the location, food, and drinks to make it a great time. You and your friends can eat, drink , and be creative. For more information about Lush Art of Clinton, email: thelushes@yahoo.com, also www.facebook.com/LushArtofClinton. For more information about the Clinton-Sampson Chamber of Commerce, visit www.clintonsampsonchamber.org or call 910-592-6177. (Courtesy photo)
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Taxes from cancellation of mortgage debt
by Dean Alexander
Jun 19, 2013 | 62 views | 0 0 comments | 4 4 recommendations | email to a friend | print

Generally speaking if you have a debt cancellation you can expect income. So if you don’t pay your credit card debt, the credit card company will send you a 1099 for the amount of debt cancelled as though it is income you have earned. That income must be included in your tax for the year. The same thing occurred with mortgage cancellation of debt until pressure came from taxpayers years ago and congress responded by giving reprieve to mortgage cancellation of debts. But like everything else given by the government, you are extracting skin over a bone. It is painfully given. In other words there will be strings attached. Strings or no strings the change was a very welcome.

Which Debt Qualifies for Debt Forgiveness?

1) Debt is forgiven if it is occasioned by loans on your home and the maximum loan is two million dollars (one million for married filing separately).

2) If you have debt restructuring you may be able to exclude the amount of debt reduced (or forgiven) as a result of the debt restructure. The same thing also applies to foreclosure. If the debt that is forgiven was prompted by foreclosure on your home that debt also is not taxable. Remember that this does not apply to investment property.

3) The rules also apply to loans resulting from financing. This will only be applicable if you use the loan proceeds to build or make major improvements in your home. This exclusion applies only to the underlying original loan on your home that you had before refinancing. If you refinance your home for purposes other than what is listed above such as refinancing your home to pay credit card debt or even an IRS debt or back taxes, this will not qualify for the exclusion.

4) If you are a candidate for the exclusion, use form 982 Reduction of Tax Attributes Due to Discharge of Indebtedness. This form should accompany your tax return in the year of debt cancellation.

5) Again other debt cancellation may not be subject to the exclusion. Cancelled debts on second homes, rental business property, credit cards, and car loans do not qualify for this exclusion. You may qualify for the discharge best on other procedures or rules such as bankruptcy and liquidity problems.

6) You will receive form 1099- Cancellation of Debt, which shows both debt forgiven and the fair market value of the property subject to debt cancellation or foreclosure.

(Editor’s note: Dean Alexander has been helping clients across the country with tax issues for over 30 years. He currently is the president of NFA Tax Help located in Houston, TX. Their website is www.resolvemytaxes.com.)

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Ribbon cut at Lush Art
The Clinton-Sampson Chamber of Commerce welcomed a new business and Chamber member, Lush Art of Clinton, with a ribbon cutting celebration Thursday, June 13. Lush Art of Clinton is owned and operated by co-owners Jodie Nelson and Cara Heard. Lush Art of Clinton brings paint, pre-sketched canvas, and supplies to your party.You add the location, food, and drinks to make it a great time. You and your friends can eat, drink , and be creative. For more information about Lush Art of Clinton, email: thelushes@yahoo.com, also www.facebook.com/LushArtofClinton. For more information about the Clinton-Sampson Chamber of Commerce, visit www.clintonsampsonchamber.org or call 910-592-6177. (Courtesy photo)
Ribbon cut at Lush Art The Clinton-Sampson Chamber of Commerce welcomed a new business and Chamber member, Lush Art of Clinton, with a ribbon cutting celebration Thursday, June 13. Lush Art of Clinton is owned and operated by co-owners Jodie Nelson and Cara Heard. Lush Art of Clinton brings paint, pre-sketched canvas, and supplies to your party.You add the location, food, and drinks to make it a great time. You and your friends can eat, drink , and be creative. For more information about Lush Art of Clinton, email: thelushes@yahoo.com, also www.facebook.com/LushArtofClinton. For more information about the Clinton-Sampson Chamber of Commerce, visit www.clintonsampsonchamber.org or call 910-592-6177. (Courtesy photo)
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The Clinton-Sampson Chamber of Commerce welcomed a new business and Chamber member, Lush Art of Clinton, with a ribbon cutting celebration Thursday, June 13. Lush Art of Clinton is owned and operated by co-owners Jodie Nelson and Cara Heard. Lush Art of Clinton brings paint, pre-sketched canvas, and supplies to your party.You add the location, food, and drinks to make it a great time. You and your friends can eat, drink , and be creative. For more information about Lush Art of Clinton, email: thelushes@yahoo.com, also www.facebook.com/LushArtofClinton. For more information about the Clinton-Sampson Chamber of Commerce, visit www.clintonsampsonchamber.org or call 910-592-6177.

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